Sunday, March 02, 2014

Some little things for the little one

Wow, time goes by fast when you're having fun. I've been meaning to blog at least monthly so I would have an account of Mr M's first year. Never really got around to it but I have been taking heaps of photos.

Anyway, Mr M is growing up way too fast. I love him to bits. He's actually quite an easy baby. Sleeps through the night most nights, plays quite happily by himself and eats so much. We started him on solids at 5 months and like his Dad, takes to food with great gusto.

Since my sister has two boys, I didn't really need to buy any clothes for Mr M but when I was in Myer recently, they had the jacket below. I had to have it. The sales assistant even took the last size 0 off the mannequin for me. Took it home and it was too small. I was totally devastated. I can't even exchange it for a larger size. I have one chubba bubba.

So what does a loving crafting mother to do?

Make one of course. I couldn't find another similar print in jersey knit so just picked up whatever looked cute and boyish. Don't look too closely as the chevrons don't really match up. It is a reversible jacket and lined with pellon. The pattern is the OwlyBaby Sidewalk Jacket and actually says that it isn't suitable for knit fabrics. But meh, I only read that after I started cutting and it turned out quite well anyway.

Also, in preparation for our upcoming trip to Denmark, I made Mr M a viking hat. Pattern here. In fact, I'm making one for the BFG as well but I ran out of yarn so currently trying to source more of the same to finish it.

I'm not going to waffle on about how being a mother has been life changing yada yada. All I can say is that it's different. Mr M is such an integral part of our lives now and watching him develop into his own little person is pretty cool.

He's also started Day Care (speak to anyone in Sydney and the topics of conversation revolve around property and childcare - it seems). I've had to put him in to secure the spot (well I could just pay for the spot and keep him home but having some time to myself has been wonderful). He doesn't seem too traumatised from being institutionalised with strangers.

As for myself, I've started running and swimming again. I thought I would get right back into all of that after giving birth (ok so not right after - maybe 6 weeks after). Seriously, 7 months later and I'm still not feeling 100% like myself. I guess I underestimated the time it would take to feel normal again.

I also need to really get my ninja research skills on and start working out what we are going to do in Europe. I've now come to the realisation that flying into Frankfurt is a dumb idea. I don't think there is all that much to see and do there and should have chosen to fly into Munich or Paris. Oh well, at least one thing you can probably count on in Germany, is that there will be some well-oiled train that will get us to the next destination.

Friday, November 08, 2013

Memory making

I can't believe that Mr M is nearly 4 months old. He's quite a sizeable bubba and I forget that he's still very young because of his size compared to other babies. So it's always nice to flick through our photos of him to see how much he has grown.

I've been trying to catch up my Project Life album which I'm putting together for him.

I've been using the Baby for Him Project Life kit that my friend Petrice gave me when I was still pregnant.  I started off printing my photos using Snapfish but it actually worked out better for me to just print them at home. It's more expensive (actually, a lot more expensive) but so much more convenient and I get to print them in the size I need so there has been a lot less wastage. I also used my super researching skills to find the cheapest place to buy the paper and inks for our Canon printer.

Seriously, even though this is not traditional scrapbooking, it can still suck you into this black hole. I've just been buying up so much of people's destash on the Project Life Facebook page and bits and pieces here and there. I even took Mr M out to Penrith to the Papercrafts Fair last weekend. He was a lot more patient than I thought he would be.

Anyway, when going through our photos of Mr M, I realised that I had quite a lot of crappy iphone pics which weren't really print worthy. I've since brought out my Nikon DSLR and am learning how to use it properly so I can get some decent photos.

All my other crafts have been put aside. I really just need to get the album up to date so I can put it to one side and finish knitting a top and sewing my quilt - both started when I was still pregnant.

I think in the grand scheme of things, we've been pretty lucky with Mr M. After a pretty horrific last year, I really do think I deserve an easy baby. If the Grand Juju up there gifted me with a colicky, hard to please baby, I would totally lose it.

Having said that, we are off to Europe next Easter, and hope that Mr M remains relatively easy. Tickets are booked (we took advantage of the early bird Europe flights) for Frankfurt, returning via Copenhagen. Our main destination is Switzerland as we'll be meeting up with my inlaws and sister-in-law and her family. I'm dreaming of snow capped mountains and a relaxing stay in a Swiss chalet. We're breaking up the trip on either end with stopovers in Dubai. I'm going to brush up on my singing skills and practice all the Sound of Music songs. Switzerland - the Vong-Rasmussens are coming!!

Monday, September 23, 2013

Where has all the time gone?

Wow, maternity leave is like this time warp. I feel like I'm constantly busy and the time just disappears. Even when I'm not so busy, I feel like my day goes by super quick.

Max is already 10 weeks old tomorrow. I still can't tell who he looks like. Me or the BFG. Although I like to think he looks like me. The BFG was really blonde with blue eyes when he was a baby - like "Children of the corn" blonde. The Asian gene is pretty strong! Max still has bluey-grey eyes at the moment, but we're not hopeful they will stay that way.

I really thought I'd go stir crazy spending every day with a baby who can't talk back. However, it's actually been quite fun. He's a great feeder and not a bad sleeper. Now that he's a bit more alert, when he's awake, it's a more interesting. I try to get out of the house at least once a day - even if it's a walk to the shops and back. The only thing is, he hates shopping. Every time we go to a shopping centre, the floors are too smooth and he just cracks it. He's more settled when bumping along the crappy sidewalks.

We still go through the arsenic hour, but both the BFG and I take it in our stride. We can go from this:

To this:

In the space of 2 seconds.

Yep, I have no qualms about whipping out the camera to take photo evidence of His Royal Unreasonable-ness.


Friday, August 09, 2013

A new WIP I finished a little while ago

Not sure why it's taken me this long to write this post. But I finally finished something! The BFG and I welcomed a new addition to our family - Max Chi Stenner Rasmussen. He came on the 16 July after I was induced.


I can't say that childbirth is a great experience and can't really recommend it. My waters broke on the Sunday night, we were told to come in on Monday, and nothing happened. The BFG and I were so bored out of our brains inside the birthing suite (even though it was super nice - hello private health insurance!!). My obstetrician came to see me in the afternoon and said she'll induce me the next morning. So the BFG went home to feed the dogs and I stayed in the birthing suite that night.

Won't go into more details, but I was induced the following morning and he came just after lunch. I asked for an epidural when the gas and the TENS machine failed me and I seriously thought I was going to completely lose the plot.

From this experience, I am grateful that I kept my health insurance up to date and went private. I felt so crap after the birth that I couldn't imagine being in a shared ward had I gone public (yes, call me a princess). I really appreciated having my own room, my own bathroom and the really lovely midwives at the Sydney Adventist Hospital. I was in hospital for a week (difficulties with breast feeding and Max losing more than 10% of his weight) and was quite ready to go home even though I was going to miss all the help from the midwives.

Tuesday, July 09, 2013

Maternity leave!

I'm finally on maternity leave. The last few weeks of work were starting to wear me down a bit. The travel into the city, trying to get stuff done and just general waddling everywhere. But as the last few days were looming, I started to feel a bit ansty about finishing up as well. I feel this way a bit when I go on holidays as well, like I can't truly relax and to think I will be on extended leave!!

When the quilt and craft show was on a few weeks ago, I took a few hours off work and went down to have a look see. I bought some Quince & Co yarn in Finch from Suzy Hausfrau (and met Renae and RoseRed) while I was there.

So of course I felt the need to start working on it immediately. This is Blithe by Kim Hargreaves. I'm making it in a size I hope to be back to after I give birth. I seriously can't believe how much weight I've gained (but then again, it's not like I've been depriving myself).

Blithe - Kim Hargreaves in Quince & Co Finch
I also put my name down for a weekend beginners quilting class and finally got a spot. I only managed to get to two sessions as my due date is very close and probably won't make it to another one.

I was wondering if I should go to quilting class, but having attended two, I've learnt so much. I'm a bit disappointed I won't be able to go for a while and I did need some help doing this - the Cogs and Wheel pattern by Denyse Schmidt. The curves were a bit of a challenge!

Cogs & Wheel - first block. I'm making this in a Queen size.
The other thing I'm about to start doing is creating a Project Life album for the new member of our family. My lovely friend Petrice got me onto this and also gave me the album and baby core kit. Scrapbooking has never really been my thing, but Project Life is this massive easy version of keeping a photo journal. I actually can't wait to start!

Project Life
Pregnancy update - Today I'm 37w+5 (so the baby is pretty much cooked). It's no longer breech (thank goodness) but is posterior so hoping it will still turn before I give birth. We're still having a large baby and with that, all the concerns during a natural delivery. My obstetrician doesn't seem too concerned and we've discussed pain relief and I've decided to just go with the flow rather than come up with a rigid birth plan.

I've packed most of my hospital bag (still missing the all important snacks, magazines and music to get through the pain!!). The baby room isn't completed but I'm not all that concerned as we're planning on having the baby in our room for a bit AND the BFG is taking 3 weeks off work. I'm sure even with our relatively slack "get it done" attitude, the cot will be put together at some point.

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Long weekend in the mountains

This June long weekend was the BFG and my last chance to take a mini break together without children! So you can imagine how desperate I was to actually go away (because I'm a real freak about FOMO - fear of missing out).

Seeing as I'm pretty heavily pregnant now, we decided it best that we didn't fly anywhere. So we decided to go to the Blue Mountains and seeing as I'm such a procrastinator when it comes choosing where to stay, Lillianfels was booked out and had also changed their packages by the time I was ready to book. Instead I booked us into the Mountain Heritage Hotel & Spa which is a grand old guest house (with decor to match!).  The funny thing about this place is that it's like stepping back to the 1800s. Their restaurant belongs in the 80s. We decided against dinner at the hotel when we saw "Portugese supreme" on the menu.

View from our room
It wasn't as cold as I was expecting but it was nice to get out of Sydney. We didn't really do very much which is kind of what we wanted to do. We had lunch in Leura, dinner at an Indian restaurant in Katoomba and just checked out the Scenic world - but we didn't end up going on anything as we had gotten there a bit late and when we tried again the next day, the queue was way too long.

We (as in I) did get to check out a few vintage and old wares shops. The BFG who does not share my love for vintage just goes to me "so how did all this vintage shit end up in the mountains?". Which, if you think about it, is kind of true. How is it that all along the way up the mountains, then Leura, Katoomba and Blackheath are full of vintage shops??

I still enjoyed looking even though I didn't buy anything (I did see a couple of vintage sideboards - but we will have to wait till we redo our house to fit one in).

Green bakelite!!
I had a pregnancy massage at Yindi Day Spa. While they had the massage bed with the hole for your belly, it still took me a couple of minutes to fully relax into it. But once relaxed, the massage was great. Especially seeing as I've been suffering from lower back pain.

High tea - Lillianfels
While we didn't get to stay at Lillianfels, we did go for high tea to try to relive one of our earlier dates. Last time, we were there for hours and nibbled daintily on the sandwiches and sweets. This time, there was no modesty and being the old married couple we are, totally hoed into the food.

Great weekend away and just to think, the next time we go away, it will be a family of 3!!

Speaking of which - pregnancy update.
I had an appointment with my obstetrician today (33w+4d) and unfortunately, the baby is still in breech position which could mean an elective c-section. There is also a possibility that I might have gestational diabetes - even though she didn't think it likely but still need to go through the 2 hour test. AND - wait for it.... I'm having a large baby! Ugh... Might be around 4kg but I'll have another scan at around 37 weeks to double check.

Monday, June 03, 2013

Burda sew-a-long

So the Burda-sew-a-long which I joined (hosted by The Curious Kiwi and Modern Vintage Cupcakes) ended in May. I'm a couple of days behind in posting about it. I have several excuses. Firstly, trying to get the right fabric without spending a month's salary. Second was having the energy to work on it. And third is the fact that Burda instructions are completely diabolical!

I'm making Burda 7587 - a swing jacket in View B (the shorter one).

The problem is that I've never tried a Burda pattern before and I really struggled with the inserting the collar. I sat on it for 2 days and realised I still wasn't getting anywhere. Obviously, this isn't such a popular pattern as there were hardly any other bloggers out there making this and giving suggestions on how to do this.

I eventually found this post on the Collette blog on how it was supposed to work.

Crap shite instructions from Burda

This is what I ended up with last night when I finally sewed the sleeves together. It's not lined, the hem hasn't been done and the buttons and button holes are still missing at the moment. 

When I tried this jacket on, I realised that it is NOT flattering at all. Especially for short people like me who currently looks like an Oompa Loompa. The collar is too big and it looks like a dressing gown. 

I think I'm going to ditch it and not waste any more time on it. That's kind of depressing but what heck. I think I need to just accept defeat. When I mentioned it to the BFG this morning, he goes to me "I tried to tell you that jackets like that don't look good on you. They're made for really tall skinny women. Remember the pumpkin jacket?"

So so true! The pumpkin jacket was this really cute one from French Connection a couple of years ago that I wanted to buy but it did have a $300 price tag. The BFG at the time didn't think it was going to be flattering but suggested that I try it on anyway. His first words were "You look like a pumpkin". So that was the end of that.

Now, what to do with a half finished jacket? If I donate it to Vinnies, will someone take pity on it and finish it up?

Anyway, to more uplifiting news. As of today, I only have 4 more weeks of work before I go on maternity leave. I'm so excited because it means I can actually have some time off work - absolutely guilt free!

Pregnancy update - I'm currently at 32w+3d and I feel huge. My lower back is killing me most nights so sleep has been difficult. We're still debating about names and we pretty much have everything we need. The BFG and I went to the Baby and Toddler expo and what I thought was going to be a 1 hour trip, turned into 4 hours, in which the BFG nearly went postal.

My belly and the pram blanket I'm knitting